F#%@ perfect. Perfect people don’t exist. Perfect scores might, but let’s face it—we’re not test results, and life isn’t a competition to ace.
If someone claims to be perfect or projects an image of perfection, how can you even relate to that? Perfection is unrelatable. It’s the cracks in our facades and the quirks in our characters that make us human—and that’s what fosters genuine connection.
We all have insecurities. Maybe you’re a gym owner, and you feel the pressure to maintain a certain look—big arms, giant shoulders, amazing quads, calves, glutes, abs…
Or maybe it’s something else entirely. You might be self-conscious about the bags under your eyes, acne, bald spots, skinny wrists, small ankles, or less-than-impressive biceps. Here’s the truth: all those worries are just stories your ego tells you. The ego—rooted in fear—hates discomfort. But discomfort is where real growth happens.
Your self—your true self—leads with love. When you’re happy and at peace with who you are, that’s all that truly matters. Say it out loud: I am happy with who I am.
Maybe you’ve got acne. Think of it as the story of a young person learning to feel comfortable in their own skin. Balding? Well, God only made so many perfect heads; the rest, He covered with hair. Small arms or ankles? Who cares when you’ve got a great ass and a chest chiseled like a Greek god’s statue? Own it. Walk with confidence. Strut like a peacock.
Here’s the kicker: nobody’s really judging you—and even if they are, so what? Their opinions don’t define you. What truly matters is how you feel about yourself. Say it again: I am happy with myself. I am happy with how I feel today. I am happy with what I’m bringing to the world.
The need for validation from others is a trap. True happiness comes from within. When you stop chasing approval, you free yourself to embrace who you are and live authentically.
Forget perfect. Perfect is boring. Perfect is fake. Embrace your imperfections, because that’s where the magic happens. Lead with love, celebrate your quirks, and find joy in being unapologetically you. Happiness isn’t about how the world sees you; it’s about how you see yourself. So stop caring about what others think and start living for you.
